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"the inscription S. put on the blade, read, 'OK, lover boy, donโ€™t lose this one.'"

How sweet! ๐Ÿ’

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That she is! Thanks, Kristin.

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Thanks Gary. Your writing is very similar to your beautiful knife..."I hope someone who might find it will appreciate its beauty and function in their own life". I appreciate its beauty. Thank you.

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Thanks, Ian. I appreciate your observation and comment. I am working on learning to make my writing more like my knife which was wonderfully designed, useful, practical and productive. You have given me a good suggestion to pursue further. Not sure I can compete with the elegant beauty of my lost knife but I can follow the ideas of keeping it simple, and easy to understand. And I hope those who find my writing will appreciate it in a similar way.

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I used to worry about losing my keys from my pocket. Iโ€™ve never had to worry since buying a key ring attached to a spiral coiled chain fitted with a metal lobster clasp which I attach to my belt. Maybe you could do the same with your next one?

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Idea worth considering. Interesting that I have not lost my keys so maybe attaching the next knife, if I get one, to my keys would work. Size a consideration since the pocketknife is 4โ€ long. I have another idea which is a handmade leather holder that would attach to my belt. That worked for the Leatherman quite well. Time will tell..as it does often.

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โ€œI hope someone who might find it will appreciate its beauty and function in their own life.โ€

And if they be a lover boy, they better not lose it! Well, ultimately, someone else was gonna be borrowing it anyway. You knowโ€ฆthe whole โ€œcanโ€™t take it with youโ€ thing. Yadda, yadda, yadda.

I enjoyed this Gary! Growing up on farms I was familiar with many different kinds of knivesโ€”especially of the pocket kind. Like you, I had a Swiss army knife. I think I bought it myself. It was so cumbersome, I canโ€™t recall using it. But, I had a Swiss army knife! In fact, come to think of it, I might still have it!!! Now, just gotta remember where. Wasnโ€™t engraved though. Pressureโ€™s off.

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What helps is to have someone in my life who helps remove the pressure(s) and who understands and accepts my foibles. And, of course, you're right. Had I kept it in my possession until the end, someone else would get it because as far as I know, I'm taking nothing with me when I leave.

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As far as I know, too, thatโ€™s true.

Now I wonder what your lover will engrave the next knife with? โ€œOkay, go ahead and lose this one too. I bought a dozen moreโ€”from your retirement account.โ€

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๐Ÿคฃ It may be that Santa knows my story. Good question about next engraving. She is clever, smart and has a wicked sense of humor so god only knows what she might create, if she does. I have not asked and she has not offered to replace, at least not yet and the last one came as a total surprise. They are expensive and cost on average around $220 USD.

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Loved this post! It's so relatable in that we've all experienced losing something precious and meaningful, and then coming to the understanding that change and loss are part of life.

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Yes, you get it. I did not want to relate this to the bigger losses in our lives that have a much larger impact so I tried to put it in the context and perspective of where I believe it belongs. The larger topic could well be "loss and recovery" or something like that. I did not comment on where we might place too much value on material things by giving them human characteristics. However, I know several people here on Substack who have names for their cars and vans.

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what an important and functional tool. All good- things come and things go. :) Loved listening to your audio. My husband is a knife maker and we have a deep respect for well made old school tools! I lost the first knife he made me and I felt so bad...

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