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Gary- I am sending you healing thoughts, dear friend. I am happy to know you and learn from wisdom of your stories.

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Thanks, Nessa. Much appreciated. You take care, stay healthy and hopeful

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Just flowing with fleeting moments of what is. ✨

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Nothing better than FLOW!

Mihalyi Csikszentmihalyi describes eight characteristics of flow:

Complete concentration on the task;

Clarity of goals and reward in mind and immediate feedback;

Transformation of time (speeding up/slowing down);

The experience is intrinsically rewarding;

Effortlessness and ease;

There is a balance between challenge and skills;

Actions and awareness are merged, losing self-conscious rumination;

There is a feeling of control over the task.

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You’re doing it, my friend. And eldering us as you do so such that, as we join you there, on our own paths, with that shared journey, we’ll have had a wise guide who advanced mere steps ahead.

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You mentioned "fathering" which role I took on in 1962 with the birth of a daughter. How interesting that at this stage and in this situation, the role gets reversed and daughter becomes the care giver. I am sure as can be that while I love being a father and still am very much so, no new offspring in the future. Ooops! We took on a new pup 2 months ago who is now almost 6 months old, so there is that!

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Continuing to pray for you Gary...blessings mate on your cautious part of the track.

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Thanks, Ian, much appreciated.

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well, don't those old tortoises claim that slow and steady is the secret to long life? And I believe they can father offspring when they are over 100, so, Gary ... 'keep it up man' ...

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OMG!!! LOVE this response. Double entendres…let ‘em come! (Oops, there we go again!).

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